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5 easy ways to make people like you

It is a human nature that expects everyone to like you. Sometimes you might succeed in that but most times you fail to achieve that. You might be a wonderful person but a lot of people do not like you. They speak well with you but when you are not around they speak badly. More badly, others do not even talk to you. How do we make people to like you? The secret lies in the Charlotte named our communication skill. If you read self management books about influential people, Born to win, how to Win Friends and Influence People etc, there are hints provided that enables you to win the people’s heart.

Trait number 1: Show genuine interest in other people

When people are in need, you might be helping them, however do introspection, are you helping them out with genuine interest? If you are not helping others with genuine interest, it will reflect in your body language which exposes your disinterest. People do not like to get help from people who has no interest on their problem and this is your first stone that you need to change. Show genuine interest on other people. Care them; this will help you to win their heart.

Trait number 2: Smile.

Do you like to have a friend who always shows sad face? or always with angry face? Do you like that person? This applies to everyone in this world. No one likes people with sad face. Everyone wants people with positive energy. Bring a smile in your face; it will bring a lot of changes in you and your environment. No matter how big the problems are, have a smiling face. A smile will make your face attractive and will bring attention. People like smiley faces. That is the exact reason why stress reliving materials (balls, cups, button) has smiley faces.

Trait number 3: Remember and use the other person's name.

Use other person’s name while talking. This one quality we all forget easily. While talking to others always quote the other person’s name who actually spelled. This will bring happiness to the person who quoted since their words are spelled in public. Everyone likes recognition and you give that to make them to like you. Isn’t that easy to say “sometime back Person X told me about this place that this place is very good and they enjoyed everything that this place offered”.

Trait number 4: Encourage others to talk about them.

Are you a speaker or a listener? If you are a speaker then you cannot win the hearts of others. Being a speaker always does not help you to win the hearts. Be a listener; allow others to talk about them. Like you everyone likes to talk about themselves give them a chance, listen with interest. Remember the first trait, show genuine interest to know about them.

5: Talk in terms of the other person's interests.

In any conversation like our interest, it is also important to talk in terms of other person’s interest. If you always talk only your interest people will start not talking to you. When you speak in other person’s interest they feel that you care for them too. So it is very important to talk in terms of other person’s interest.

Have you noticed a point in all above traits? If you want to win other people’s heart, then it is all about how we treat others, how we let others to express themselves. Yes that is the key to make other people to like you. When speaking about others, they start feeling important and they start to like you more. This does not mean that you don’t speak for yourself but you speak about them more than you speak about you.

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