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True Friendships - How to Get true Friends and friendships
True Friendship - Recognition
How can we find true friendships in this fast and selfish world. This world is not a permenent world and
our life in this tempory world is very short like a thin string tied between two edges. In this time how can we find friends and friendships
which is true and trustable. Friendships involves recognition or familarity with another's personality. Friends must share likes and
dislikes, interest, views, passion of their life and world. This gives a lot of recognition with the person whom we need have friendship.
How can we recognize potential friendship? There is a lot of symptoms which includes mutual desire for companionship and perhaps
a common bond in some topics similar to each other. Beyond that a genuine and mutual friendship involves a shared sense of caring and concern, a
desire to see one another grow and develop, and a hope for each other to succeed in all aspects of life. True friendship involves action: doing something for
someone else while expecting nothing in return; sharing thoughts and feelings without fear of judgment or negative criticism.
True Friendship - Relationship, Trust, Accountability
True friendship involves relationships. Those mutual attributes we mentioned above
become the foundation in which recognition transpires into relationship. Many people say, "Oh, he's a good friend of mine," yet they never take
time to spend time with that "good friend." Friendship takes time: time to get to know each other, time to build shared memories, time to invest in each other's growth.
Trust is essential to true friendship. We all need someone with whom we can share our lives, thoughts, feelings, and frustrations. We need to be able to share our
deepest secrets with someone, without worrying that those secrets will end up on the Internet the next day! Failing to be trustworthy with those
intimate secrets can destroy a friendship in a hurry. Faithfulness and loyalty are key to true friendship. Without them,
we often feel betrayed, left out, and lonely. In true friendship, there is no backbiting, no negative thoughts, no turning away.
True friendship requires certain accountability factors. Real friends encourage one another and
forgive one another where there has been an offense. Genuine friendship supports during times of struggle. Friends are dependable. In true friendship, unconditional love develops. We love our
friends no matter what and we always want the best for our friends.
True Friendship - on a plain view
Real and true friendship involves freedom of choice, accountability, truth, and forgiveness. Real friendship looks at the heart, not just the "packaging." Genuine friendship loves for love's
sake, not just for what it can get in return. True friendship is both challenging and exciting. It risks, it overlooks faults, and it loves unconditionally, but it
also involves being truthful, even though it may hurt. Genuine friendship, also called "agape" love, comes from the Lord.
Relationships in real life involve different levels of friendships, and that's okay. Often our isolationist society offers only vague, empty relationships. friends sticks closer than
a brother, and that in order for one to be a friend, one must show themselves friendly. The question is: what type of friend do you desire to be?
When we've offended a true friendship - whether by breaking a trust or by speaking the truth with
love - we risk losing that friendship. We must be careful not to break the trust. But when not speaking the truth will cause greater hurt in our
friend's life, we must be willing to sacrifice our needs for those of our friend. That is true friendship.
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