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How to pick someone on Public Transport
There is no such thing as sophisticated as public transport for picking up a date. Public Transport provides a number of options to pick a date of your interest. How many times you saw someone who is so attractive for you and havenít taken further steps to have a chat with them. Are you planning to be a single in your whole life time? Remember catching up a chat with a stranger on a public transport is very simple if you follow my way.
To pick someone in public transport, you first need to be a little but brave who can initiate the chat. No one will chat with you until unless you initiate the chat. Donít be shy to pick someone on public transport.
Handle the Environment
Remember the rule one. Public transport is a tough environment. In public transport you can find a variety of people who might be soft or rough or someone who donít like intrusion into their privacy or frustrated people about Traffic or any other things. You can even find people who are aggressive in public transport. So how can we catch up a chat with someone whom we hardly know? To chat with someone in public transport you must be a quick thinker and you must be able to create new topics for chatting. You must be decisive than aggressive. Aggressive people get less chance to catch a chat with someone on public transport
Checkout your date
In public transport you must first check the person you are interested. Find out the timings of travel to make sure that you travel with them on the same time. You must be quick in taking decisions because your date might get down in next stop. Once you decided to catch up some chat with the personals, check their environment. Are they with someone? Or Are they with their better half. Trying to pick someone who has a better half will bring tears rather than life.
Now you had found the person you wish to chat on the public transport. Now you need to position yourself such that there will be some eye contact between you and the personal you are trying to pick. Positioning is so much critical. I had seen a lot of personals loose chats with their loved ones because of their position. You must position yourself in public transport such a way that, there are high chances of getting an eye contact. If you are targeting a personal in public transport remember that, you need to position yourself outside too. If you are waiting for Bus or a local metro rail, let them get in first. This will give an opportunity for you to find out their place and you can position yourself easily.
It is always useful to have a newspaper or a magazine in your hands. It will give something to pretend to look. By having a newspaper or a magazine you can avoid glancing the open space or outside always. Sometimes having a newspaper or a magazine will help you in starting a conversation with a stranger in public. If you use MP3 player, remember to remove the headphones off from ears. When you have your headphone on, your body language sates you are not approachable. This will reduce the chance of picking someone on Public Transport. Even though you have mp3 player, casually take them off in front of your target.
Eye contact is most important to start a conversation in public transport and to pick someone in public transport. Eye contact is the best way to tell someone as physically attractive. Begin by glancing him/her by catching their eye and holding it for a second or two. Then have a look somewhere. Again after 30 seconds you can glance at them again. If they glance at you, they might be interested. Continue this for some time before you speak up. This is because glancing might be misunderstood a lot of times. If they donít look back at you, then chances are they are not interested and all your advancement will be bear no fruit.
There are no alternatives for a smile. A proper smile helps you to attract others like magnets. A Smile makes your face bright and attractive. When you catch their eye for the second time, smile at them. It makes you friendly and approachable. That helps you to start a conversation with them too. If they smile back, it is likely that you are on the path of winning. Remember too much smiling makes you look odd so be careful while smiling.
A perfect body language is a great weapon to attract people. You donít need to be Brad Pitt or Shakira to attract people. A perfect body language helps you to be the center of attraction. A comfortable body language will tell a lot about their interest on you. Once they smile back to you, itís time to check out their body language. A proper sign about their interest on you is they angled themselves towards you. This is a positive sign and you are one step ahead in the path. Make sure your body language is also positive. Never cross your arms or your legs. These are negative signals showing disinterest. Angle yourselves towards them.
Itís time to start a conversation with them. Lot of people is not ready to start a conversation with a complete stranger. Even though body language is perfect people donít have nerve to start a conversation. Knowing how to start conversation with strangers will help you to have a small chit chat with the person you are targeting. Remember you donít have hours, so decide immediately. They might get down at next stop, so better be fast on this.
A simple Hi will help you to start the conversation, try to ask questions which can open up more than just a yes or no. This is not an exam to get a yes or no. Also remember that they might not speak with you just like that. So donít lose hope. If they are interested to have a chit chat, they will happily give details and answer more. Their voice will show whether they are genuinely interested on you or not. If it is going badly, just get off at the next stop.
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