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Making Friendships Last - How to Make friends and friendship till our life
The conflicts may araise due to stress at workor tiredness or some other situations for which friends or friendship never
come into. These kind of conflicts must be understood by both friends, and it must be confronted. Dealing with a conflict with a friend is a
big problem and emotional too. How about a short term stress than a long term stress.
Various ways to make this conflict an end.
Take your time to get cool from your stress and tiredness. after cooling talk about the conflict with open mind with your friend.
Realise a fact that your friend or friends too have theor own ideas and thoughts. Being your friend doesn't mean that they don't have any ideas and they follow yours.
Have a chat in a calm place with your friend, discuss the problem with your friend full open hearted.
This is a GOLDEN RULE for dealing a conflict.
NEVER ALLOW any others inbetween you. unless there is a need of mediator
between you both. Choose the mediator very wisely, who can able to
reduce the conflict not to increse the conflict. This rule applys for
any persons.
Focus to the solution rather than the problems.
Focus must be in building stronger friendship from this conflict. A lot
of true friendship started in conflicts only. When there is conflict if
both are interested then there emerge a new friendship whch cannot be
broken by anything in the world. So only we said that there must be
small conflicts in friendship so that it builds our friendship stronger.
Another GOLDEN RULE : Apologize! . Apology is a best medicine for every problem. When we find that wrong is from ourside then we must be ready to ask an apology with our friend. If there is no apology between both It may close the conflict for time being but there won't be an end.
There is a sad part in the conflicts, Sometimes even after all these instructions some friendship which you need to keep amy fall. The more you
mean a friendship, more time and emotions put you a hold, when these kind of situation araises at some point we need to put an end to the
friendship. When this happens give time to regain yourself from the loss. does losing a friend is a loss. Wait for next article on Losing a friend - Facts and Practicals
Making Friendships Last - How to Make friends and friendship till our life
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